standing together for trans lives: marking trans day of remembrance

Honouring trans lives lost to violence, akt attended vigils in Manchester and London on Trans Day of Remembrance, standing in solidarity with the global trans community.

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(Content notes: this piece discusses transphobic violence, transphobic abuse and death by suicide. If you need support you can find a resource list below.)

What is Trans Day of Remembrance?

Trans Day of Remembrance was founded by Gwendolyn Ann Smith in 1999 to commemorate the life and death of Rita Hester, a black trans woman who was murdered in Boston, Massachusetts.

Trans Day of Remembrance is now an annual date, 20th November, on which we mark lives lost to transphobic violence across the world and call for an end to that violence. That violence is directed especially at black and brown trans people, trans women and trans fems, migrants and sex workers.

Transphobic violence is unfortunately on the rise. The Trans Murder Monitoring Project has recorded 350 murders of trans+ people since last Trans Day of Remembrance, a significant increase on the previous year. (Source: Queer AF: 350 Transgender people were murdered this year in a “significantly” increasing cycle of violence)

One in four of those killed were under the age of 25 (Source: ibid.). As a youth charity working with 16-25 year old LGBT+ young people, that statistic is especially heartbreaking.

And we know that these numbers are smaller than the reality of the violence faced, overwhelmingly affecting Black and brown trans people and those in the global South.

What is the situation like for trans youth?

In our work we are committed to supporting trans and non-binary young people out of homelessness or hostile environments to build a better future and live their fullest lives. Yet too often in our work, we see trans young people facing severe unsafety: young people fleeing domestic abuse from parents and partners, coercive control, honour-based violence and conversion practices – abuse that aims at erasing their very existence and the possibility of being trans.

At its worst, such abuse can be deadly. Almost a quarter of the murders recorded in the past year (22%) took place in the victim’s own home (Source: Trans Murder Monitoring: Will the cycle of violence ever end? TGEU’s Trans Murder Monitoring project crosses 5,000 cases – TGEU – Transgender EuropeTGEU – Transgender Europe).

Our young people also face a political and media environment that makes trans people a target of harassment, bullying and violence in the streets, in schools, in public spaces and from neighbours; while exclusion from services creates barriers to getting the support they need, especially for those who are multiply marginalised at the intersections of racism, misogyny, poverty and ableism. Facing many pressures, there is a high prevalence of suicidal ideation and poor mental health among trans youth.

Trans Day of Remembrance can be a difficult time for trans and non-binary young people and is a time when the power of community is especially vital. We are therefore grateful to the work of Not a Phase and the numerous LGBT+ charities and community groups across the country for organising these vigils, creating a space to show support for the global trans community and mutually support one-another.

Standing together on Trans Day of Remembrance

akt attended vigils in two cities to bear witness, come together in solidarity with the trans community and stand against the transphobia and intersecting oppressions trans people face.

In Manchester, akt staff and young people attended the vigil in Sackville Gardens, where akt’s Greater Manchester-based Trans Pathway Project shared a few words.

“Today we honour those people who lost their lives too soon, for we know that simply being ourselves is a celebration of life and celebration of being trans, as beautiful as it is. Today we give space particularly to trans-fem folk, to non-white trans folk, to migrant trans folk and those affected by the extended intersections of misogyny, racism, poverty and more. Our society still has so far to go in recognising the expansiveness of issues we face. We have seen from the work that we do and from our own experiences, how challenging our society can be in letting us live authentically.”
Trans Pathway staff spoke at the Manchester Vigil

Following speeches from the trans+ community in Manchester, The Untold Orchestra played as attendees read out the names of trans lives lost in the past year and we lit candles in their honour.

We teamed up with the Proud Place in offering a warm space for young people throughout the evening, where they could watch a livestream of the vigil in a safe and accessible environment with supportive staff on-hand. We know this can be a difficult time for our young people, and the importance of community spaces where we can come together in grief, strength and solidarity.

akt also attended the candle lit vigil in London, in Soho Square, and heard from some amazing activists, trans celebs and people from the community. We came together to remember those we have lost and celebrate their lives, which was incredibly moving and beautiful. Although an extremely sad day, it’s days like this that shine a light on how amazing our community is, and nothing can take that away from us.

trans+ resources

If you are affected by Trans Day of Remembrance, we encourage you to access support. Please see our resources for more information about mental health and wellbeing, support for trans+ young people, and our grief resource co-produced with young people.
Trans+ resources